Getting Bond out of Trouble
This week is going by soooo slow!! It's killing me! I don't have an exciting weekend planned, I just want this week to end. I've been walking around with a pa...(that's what we call a pony tail for short hair) and I need my hair done. Looking a mess. I can't wait to see what my James is going to do this weekend considering what happened to him (us) this past one. Read about it later...I'm still a baby bond grrl. I've printed Solitaire's exercises on being a bond grrl from her past postings and I'm studying them on my spare time. It's coming alone, just not as fast I would like it to.
(Side bar) I just went to my supervisor's desk to give her a report she asked for, and when I got there she's eating popcorn and reading a book. NOW this the same B--ch (good word just not lady like) told me that I shouldn't be reading books at my desk when I'm on down time because it doesn't look professional. I need a new job!! Cause I almost slapped her!
Anyway... like I was saying I'm looking forward to being an official bond grrl. Debt freee, happily married, with a daughter that's a very well known Fashion Designer (that's her dream not mine:-)))
I've being reading a lot of other people's blogs too. I think that's why I haven't been bloging lately. Some of these people write great stories about their everyday lives. And they are authors or aspiring to become one. I on the other hand am neither. I don't want to embarrass myself. (smile)
Now with me James. I broke up with him last Friday via e-mail. Crazy and childish I know. I'm not completely sure why I just read this one quote from another grrl's blog and just felt like it was talking to me. The quote: Never allow someone to be a priority when you are only an option to them.
I love it!! I just don't think it applied to he and I. So, he was pissed and we argued Saturday morning I didn't talk to him after that. Well, Saturday nite he went out with his buddies and had a few too many drinks, left the bar and got pulled over and arrested for OWI. How I found out...Sunday it took me forever to get up and get ready for church, I really wanted to go and pray about our relationship but I felt like the devil was fighting me to go. I got up and was pulling up in the church parking lot when my phone rang with a strange # on the caller id. I answered it and the man on the other line was talking all crazy and fast. I couldn't understand what he was saying so I was about to hang up, but then he said something about a tattoo that James has on his arm and that got my attention. He preceded to say he was in the county jail and needs me to come and get him!! I almost passed out :-o I didn't know what to do after that. I never knew anyone that I had to deal with in jail, I didn't know how to get him out. So I called the only person I knew personally that's been in this situation. My best friend's father he's been there done that :) He told me what to do and I got him out Sunday evening. Bond $2,000!!!His cash not mine!
Mind you we said some bad things to each other Saturday morning, but yet he calls me. Why because I'm his bond grrl:-))
So we are back together like nothing ever happened. I'm happy because I didn't know what I was going to do without my James. I don't think he will be taking a drink for a long time. He likes to have a drink or two on the weekends. What's he gonna do??? More importantly I'm really glad that no one got hurt!!
I told that long story because 1 I needed to tell someone and 2 Solitaire said that we (bond grrls) are there to BAIL our James out of trouble. She soo right about everything!!!
~Mica~
posted by Mica @ 2:30 PM
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Grrl, ya did what ya had ta do, he is your James! I'm sure he would have bailed you out if the shoe was on the other foot. Hang in there! And I will most certainly keep you posted on how the Special K diet works out; I start Monday! Oh, I have already checked out Ms. S blog - she bad and good at the same time, with the excellent advise to boot.
WHAT a STORY! (Too funny too about the call coming in as you're pulling up to church and had been late -- imagine if you were already in there with the celly turned off.)
The best thing about being a Bond Grrl too (which I know you know) is that this now "water under the bridge" as they say. The problem with grrls is that they "remember" these things and 2 years later throw it in the face of their James. That's one of those Bad Grrl traits. So, this one has to be locked up in the "bailed him out" box, and the key put on a high high shelf. :-) Not too high -- you know you will need to take it down to put OTHER THINGS IN that box -- but nothing should never, ever, ever come back out (especially if you are angry).
That's the hard part tho!
Wild!
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